Ok, ok, so it's working now. My bad.

But I really thought that you had to populate your friends list in order to play. Nothing happened on the pc, and on PS3 (where it's even called a "Friendly Match") the match started only when someone on my PSN friends list logged on.
As for Steam, no change there.

But please try to add me: b00nana
However, this game is completely unplayable on my hardware, even though it meets minimum requirements and the settings are set as low as possible. Which is quite disappointing when even Crysis runs better. So unless you get it for PS3, you still won't see me in-game for a while.